#13: Pass over growing up

The togetherness force assumes responsibility for the happiness, comfort, and well-being of others; it feels guilty and asks, ‘What have I done to cause this?’ When the other is unhappy or uncomfortable; it blames the others for lack of happiness…
— Family Therapy in Clinical Practice, Dr. Murray Bowen

With additional help from Marriage and Family Therapist Lorna Hecht 

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